Couples must remember, they are individuals with different backgrounds and life experiences. There may be times in the relationship that seems unpleasant and unbalanced. Some issues stems from infidelity, financial difficulties, unresolved issues from past relationships and childhood.  It is important to learn the necessary tools needed to work through issues.

Couple Therapy focuses on the emotional state of the relationship. It creates a safe environment that enables the couple to speak openly and honestly regarding their relationship. Couples will learn effective ways to communicate and problem solve without tempers escalating. They will also be able to build on their strengths and create new commitments for their relationship. Couples must understand that no two relationships are the same. They must create their own unique path that works for them and not what is based on other couples, families and friends.

When you say I DO, it is meant to last a lifetime. Once married, people tend to lose sight of why the fell in love. Kids, work and extended family can become the main focus within the marriage which can lead to a disconnect between spouses. Infidelity, finances and caring for special needs kids and/or elderly parents are some of the issues within a marriage. It is important to understand that like a job, what you put into your marriage is what you will get out of it. Taking time out to check in with each other and seek counseling when needed can help maintain their union.

Marriage counseling helps couples seek insight to improve their relationships. Couples will be able to recognize their faults within themselves to help rebuild and strength their relationships or decided that the marriage in not solvable.